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Monday, March 30, 2009
Mrs.I-Need-A-Lot-Of-Attention

My cousin graduated from High School last Saturday and it was an eventful day for the family. Everything turned out okay with some minor setbacks.

A certain Mrs.Lim or her maiden name pala is Ms.Baloja daw from Evergreen State Academy, approached my Tita G to set up a "so-called meeting" regarding some petty issues mainly rumors and hearsays around the campus. For weeks, my Tita G informed me about how some parents (I know who they are) in that school tried to create some hullabaloo of some sort. I listened to it every single day. Frankly, I got tired of listening to the same old bullshit that I keep on hearing regarding their school's issues.

It's none of my concern but then again Tita G is a part of my family. Therefore, anyone who tries to mess with her will have to deal with me also.

Last February 2009 during their HS Night, Tita G and the rest of the parents were asked to wait for their kids in the parents lounge. I was with her along with 5 others (i think...). Mrs.Lim arrived with her chihuahua (maid) 5 minutes later. They both entered the HS night venue inside Jade's Garden. The school staff told us that parents are not allowed in that place that was why we were at the parents lounge. Some parents reacted to what they saw. Some said "O...Bakit yon nakapasok? Akala ko ba hanggang dito lang?"

We waited for quite a while thinking na maybe lalabas sila agad. We automatically assumed na baka hinatid niya lang anak niya inside but we were wrong. They intended to stay there talaga. I was the first one to follow her. When I was there I said to the teachers inside Jade's Garden -- "Papasok na ako ha, andito sya eh..." (I pointed at her coz in my opinion, if someone decided to break the rules then gagawin ko din - fair trade).

As soon as I was busy taking snapshots at the said event, all the parents followed me. They gathered near the canteen area to get a glimpsed of their kids. Tita G said "Ma'm Cory, makikigaya na rin kami sa pumasok" and technically there was nothing wrong to what she said because they were just there following the first parent who entered Jade's Garden. As they were ogling their kids, I heard Mrs.Lim said to her chihuahua "andito na ang mga usi."

Technically, I don't think that remark was intended for everybody to hear kasi she was sort of whispering it to her chihuahua eh. What she didn't expect siguro was that I was too close sa kanilang dalawa. I heard it. I stared at her and then they both disappeared sa side. When they came back a minute later, I was totally shocked to hear her saying "Gaya-Gaya, Puto-Maya."

Damn! I never heard anyone using that kind of remark to someone since I was in grade 1. She was saying that from the back of the pack. Fortunately, I and another parent don sa group overheard her. We were both stupified - in a sense - na what the hell was that about???

We told what we heard and some parents including my Tita G got heated up. Tita G and some parents started making innuendos the whole night.

A few weeks later, this twat was telling some parents in school that she wanted to confront Tita G about some issues she heard daw. She keeps saying to those "other" parents (again - kilala ko sila but I won't mention their freakin' names kasi they don't matter na rin) na Tita G is a friend of hers, an old friend of my maternal side of the family. They were childhood friends daw and that she has no idea why ganon daw si Tita G sa kanya. The old paawa stuff.

My Tita G tells me everything about anything sa school including those people who keeps on backstabbing her.

FIRST AND FOREMOST, if friend ka ng family namin then those kind of petty stuff should have never happened in the first place.

SECOND, if you're not someone who craves a lot of attention for herself and for her daughter then YOU ought to know how to value friendships. She used to call Tita G's house para lang makipagtsismisan regarding the who's and who's not ng school.

THIRD, Tita G never created any kind of rumors sa school. Most of what she knows eh galing din sa school. We heard a lot of issues regarding that twat pero Tita G never created or started anything na related sa kanya. She's the one who keeps blabbing about nonsequential stuff sa school.

One parent from HS told Tita G na gusto daw siya confront ni Mrs.Lim. This parent wanted Tita G to talk to Mrs.Lim para daw settle yung issues which is funny because why would Tita G settle something na hindi big deal sa kanya. This parent said na PARA DAW KAY GOD magbati na sila -- THAT'S BULLSHIT! Why the hell na dapat isama ang name ni God sa ganyan because if you care sa gusto ni GOD in the first place dapat walang chismisan or doubts ka sa isang kaibigan. (DAMN! this parents should go back sa kanilang RELIGION classes ng grade school).

During the graduation night, we were happy that Gilbert graduated HS. We were tired and hungry by the time the ceremony ended. MIND YOU - I get crabby when I'm starving. We were waiting for my cousins na matapos sa mga photo sessions with friends when Mrs.Lim approached my Tita G.

TAKE NOTE: I have no idea why andon siya that night. Hindi graduating ang anak niya or anyone else na related sa kanya. They were just there. The teachers in ESA weren't fond of her presence kasi nga she's a VACUUM CLEANER na hinihigop ang lakas ng mga teachers sa ESA.

This was what she said to TITA G:

TWAT: Mrs.Saroca, Ging, pwede ka ba makausap

TITA G: Oi..

TWAT: Kilala mo ba ako???

TITA G: Eh ako kilala mo???

What kind of idiotic person would say na friends sila and sasabihin niya na KILALA MO BA AKO? Ano yon panakot effect. I raised my eyebrow when I heard that.

She wanted to set up a meeting daw regarding some issues and she wanted to know when and where daw. Ayaw niya now magconfront because she didn't want to destroy our night daw with Gilbert's graduation and all. DAMN! MOCHAFRAPPECHOCOLATTE WHIPPED CREAM ON TOP! LOL! If you didn't want to ruin our night then hindi ka na dapat nag-approached non. Kung professional ka talaga, you ought to know when is the BEST POSSIBLE TIME to hear this kind of crap. ALSO, kung INTELLIGENT kang tao you would know kung PETTY or not ang issue na nilalapit mo. Tita G was like - wala akong time and ano bang issues?

This was where I noticed a lot of loopholes sa statements niya...meaning maraming hindi tumatama sa katotohanan.

I got heated up and told her na wala kaming time kasi vacation namin. We kept on asking her ano ang issues and she kept on saying na NEXT TIME NA LANG but she heard a lot of issues daw na sinabi ni Tita G or should I say kinalat ni Tita G sa kanya. SO, I said again (for like the 4th time) anong issues????

She couldn't pinpoint the exact issues basta puro marami lang daw. And then, she said according daw sa isang person, against daw si Tita G na anak niya nanalo na PROM QUEEN. Then it dawned me, it was about the HS night last February. We asked her sino nagsabi na si Tita G nagsabi non -- she couldn't name the person. I insisted na she should name the person and she mentioned or should I say name dropped a certain teacher in ESA. (funny, kasi hindi nakakausap ni Tita G yon about that... lol). We asked her to call the teacher and marami siyang reasons kesyo BUSY yon. FUCK! if you wanted to know the truth then hindi ka magdadalawang isip na tawagin yung teacher since we were still in the school.

FYI MRS.LIM: Hindi Against si Tita G sa anak mo as PROM QUEEN. MOST of the parents that night were asking why sa 3rd YEAR binigay ang award sana sa 4th year na lang since they're graduating na rin lang. YON LANG! Some parents had their bets kasi that night kung sino ang dapat maging prom queen just as you had. I'm sure bet mo anak mo right? So, yung ibang parents bet nila yung anak ng friend nila. SO WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THAT? Opinion nila yon, if you can't accept that then ignore them. AS SIMPLE AS THAT!

She then said na according sa chihuahua niya, yung mga parents daw (meaning "us") ang unang nagparinig sa HS night sa kanilang 2. Again nagnamedropped sya ng person na wala don, her chihuahua. I didn't actually believed na hindi niya kasama yung chihuahua niya that time sa school kasi they're always together. She said hindi daw niya kasama eh and nag-iisa lang daw sya so dapat kami ni Tita esp ME hindi sumisigaw. WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT??? I AM TELLING THE TRUTH SO WHY THE HELL WOULD I LOWER DOWN MY VOICE. I WANTED EVERYBODY TO HEAR WHAT I'M SAYING SO OTHERS CAN TELL SINO SA AMIN ANG SINUNGALING.

I got really pissed off kasi napakaredundant niya. If you're telling the truth then hindi dapat maraming segway. Straight to the point ang facts mo not puro HEARSAYS, NAMEDROPPING and sabi ni ganito and ganyan. Sinasayang niya oras namin kasi we were tired and hungry na that time. I was also heated up for another reason. She forgot na ako yung person na kasunod niya sa HS NIGHT. I was the one who overheard all the innuendos nila. THE FIRST ONE. I retold the story sa kanya and she was finding some ways na malusutan yon. She said "pumunta kami sa flagpole kay Ma'am Cory when the parents followed us." FREAKIN' SHIT! I WAS THERE! Before they disappeared I overheard her saying the "USI" word and when she came back yung "Gaya-Gaya, Puto-Maya" naman. LIAR pa sya because the person she was telling na pinuntahan niya sa flagpole was in the canteen that time. I saw that person doon so howcome andon yon sa flagpole. huh???

Oh and she also mentioned na mas gusto daw niya makipag usap sa ibang time pero may presence ng PARENTS and TEACHERS. I was flabbergasted. I was like HUH???? ETO NA YON! MAY PARENTS AND TEACHERS SA SCHOOL. When pa yung best possible time na yon? VACATION NA...that night was the best time to talk about it. (she still wanted us na wag sumigaw...)

Now tell me sino ang LIAR? Sino ang chismosa? Sino ang papansin? Sino ang gumagawa ng issue?

If I wanted to share here sa blog ko mga ginagawa niya sa school baka magulat ang buong ESA students. Ang daming issues sa kanya na naririnig namin but we never started it. Nakarating lang kay Tita G yon tulad ng sa ibang parents.

Obviously, she tried to avoid the conversation when I started shouting at her and telling her na sinungaling siya. She left us doon and went to a school staff para magtanong ng "YEARBOOK???" Duh! 3rd year pa lang anak niya, incoming 4th year - ang aga naman niya magtanong para sa yearbook. Ano yon escape goat? I wasn't going to backdown that night. If she didn't leave non, marami pang pwedeng nasabi and I won't regret it. I don't care if she said bastos ako or hyper ako magsalita because what I'm saying that night was THE TRUTH.

Hindi ako part ng school nila everyday but I know what I heard nung HS night. I know who started the innuendos. I have no reason para magcreate lang ng story just for the sake na makisali ako sa away. I know what I saw and I know what I heard. Hindi ako pinalaking sinungaling ng family ko. If she can flat out lie about some stuff na nangyari that night then sino sa amin ngayon ang nakakahiya. She's 40+ years old. I'm 28 years old. I don't care about the age differences. I don't care ko kung naging bastos ako sa kanya because kabastos-bastos naman kasi siya. I don't just give respect to everybody. Just like everyone else, you have to show me something worth respecting para respetuhin kita. I wouldn't be my father's daughter kung hindi ko nakuha ang kalahati ng temper niya. If my father and I can fight about what I think is right and wrong sa mga ginagawa niya, I can certainly be harsh to someone like you - someone I don't even know. IF YOU REALLY KNOW ME and my family as what you said sa ibang parents then dapat kilala mo ano ugali ng father ko and temperaments ng maternal side ko. We're quiet most of the time but don't ever start a fight with me or with anyone in my family if you don't want to get burned.

She approached my Tita G in an unprofessional way and if she insists na professional yon then backwards ang utak niya. She ought to know - kung family friend talaga siya ng family ko - once you mess with one of us - everybody else will retaliate.

Tita G is a family. If she gets involve in any issues sa school then I'm making it mine as well.

If you're miserable as a child and you need a lot of attention then that's okay. BE WHO YOU ARE pero wag ka mandamay ng tao. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT (kung professional ka alam mo dapat yan).

Nakakahiya ka naman and I pity your daughter kasi nadadamay siya sa issues na ikaw rin ang may gawa. Everybody's been talking about YOU. Teachers and parents alike maraming may ayaw syo. Masyado ka daw papansin kaya lahat ginagawa mo. Even those na wala na sa ESA na teachers maraming sinasabi about you. DAPAT SILA ANG CONFRONT MO.

As for the other parents who tried to create some issues regarding my TITA, kilala ko kayo. It's a good thing kilala ko mga anak niyo and they're friends with my cousins. Kayo-kayo nagsisiraan - what kind of an idiotic person are you kung ganyan din ginagawa mo sa iba?

That night, nakalimutan na rin namin yung issue. We celebrated and talked the whole night. It was okay. Somehow, I feel good about it kasi I have no regrets sa mga sinabi ko sa person na yon. She needed to hear it para makalabog naman ang conscience niya.

As for those who know what happened that night or kilala yung person na tinutukoy ko dito -- then now you know what really happened kung nakarinig man kayo ng arguments sa labas ng canteen. IF BY ANY CHANCE, some poor sucker will let you read this and I can pretty much guess sino ang possible person yon since kilala ko mga naka-add sa akin LOL - THEN LEARN FROM UR OWN MISTAKE! AYUSIN MO MUNA MGA DAPAT MO AYUSIN SA PERSONAL MO NA BUHAY INCLUDING YOUR DAUGHTER BAGO MO PAKIALAMAN ANG BUHAY NG IBA. ALAMIN MO MUNA ANG IBIG SABIHIN NG FRIENDSHIP BAGO MO SABIHIN NA FRIEND MO ANG TITA G KO SAME GOES TO THOSE PARENTS NA FRIENDS DAW PERO NAGKAKALAT DIN NAMAN NG LAGIM SA SCHOOL.

May ayaw ka sa sinabi ko sa blog na 'to??? FEEL FREE TO COMMENT BITCH! (I call men bitches too you know)

** DARN IT! Now I have to make another blog for my cousins' graduation and my march highlights without you in it. LOL.

I.Am.In.My.Dollhouse posted at 1:29 AM