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Sunday, May 24, 2009
Here's my two cents regarding the news about the sex scandal of Katrina Halili and Hayden Kho.
I'm a little irritated by this issue kasi wala ka ng maririnig now sa lahat ng channels but that. I have my own opinion about this issue and some may agree with me while others may not.
In fairness to Katrina Halili, I feel sad for her na kumalat yung video na yon without her knowledge. I feel bad for her family na madadamay whether they like it or not sa issue but I'm not sorry for her.
WHY?
I have my reasons for that. You see kasi...What goes around comes around. What can I say Karma is the only Bitch I like. Once tirahin ka non then you can never face other people again. She knew then na may girlfriend si Hayden Kho when he courted her. She knew na sa public pinakikilala na ang gf ni Hayden was Dr.Vicky Belo. She knew it and she ignored that fact. Another thing, hindi niya lang basta inignored yon. She went on to have sexual encounters with him without thinking the repercussions of her actions. Hindi nanaman siya minor that time.
In my own opinion kasi, it was okay lang before for her kasi hindi naman alam ng public yung nangyayari between them but since may video na lumabas she freaked out. I know she was violated sa part na pagkuha ng video without her permission but in that video hindi sya inabuse. She wanted it and nag-enjoy sya. She just didn't expect na aabot sa pagkalat ng video sa Quiapo and everywhere else yung video na yon.
It was okay for her to have sex with him nung hindi pa kumakalat yung video. It was okay na manloko ng tao and manakit ng ibang person na involved sa "illegal relationship" na yon at that time.
My point is in some ways malaki din ang fault ni Katrina Halili sa issue. Her mistakes and decisions in the past made her life complicated now. It's better not to dwell on it so much. Kaya naging overrated for me. Everybody's talking about it sa news and sa politics. Lahat ng senators may comment about it and resolutions. Sen.Bong Revilla got heated up about it which for me was really weird kasi sobrang galit eh. Parang personal na and it shouldn't be that way. It would be better if wag bigyan ng maling impression ang mga tao sa mga ginagawa nila. I'm from Cavite and a supporter of the Revilla family pero sobrang emotional kasi niya sa TV when it comes to this issue. It might make the people wonder why ganon. So siguro hinay hinay ng konti about reacting ng sobra about the issue. Sometimes kasi feeling namin malaki and personal na yung galit niya kay Hayden Kho to say those kind of things without hearing the story of the others involved in the scandal. Is it because dear friend niya si Katrinal Halili or something else? hmm...
If they really want to solve this kind of problem or video voyeurism (not sure if I spelled it correctly) di sana noon pa. There are thousands of young girls na navictimized ng ganitong klase ng problem. Wala silang tinulungan then maybe because hindi sikat yung person na involved. Katrina Halili happens to be a celebrity, a starlet pa nga lang yan but they made it a big deal. No offense to her but I got fed up kasi sa kakaiyak niya sa TV and saying na inabuse siya and binaboy sa video because that was not what I've seen sa scandal na yon. She was happy humping him away. She wasn't raped. Yung abuse na naranasan niya was very different from that. Ikakasira yon ng life niya but sana lang yung mga paawa na interviews magstop na. Just be straight to the people. I think mas makukuha niya yung sympathy ng lahat by saying na "She knows kung ano ang fault niya. She was sorry for that and ang gusto niya lang is justice sa pagkakalabas ng video niya na walang permission niya na kinuhaan siya."
I was appalled kasi sa mga binitawan niya na words in one of her interviews na "binaboy siya sa video and inabuso", i think it should have been "nababoy siya sa pagkakalabas ng video na dapat private lang or hindi dapat kinuhaan." She made it sound kasi na she didn't want the sexual stuff to happen as well.
As for Hayden Kho, I think he needs help psychologically. He's probably a sex-addict and yon ang thrill niya sa life. It was wrong for him to do that especially if hindi alam ng partner niya na kinukuhaan sila. It was disgusting in some ways and for that I pity Katrina kasi she was victimized by Hayden's sexual thrill.
As for the senators, I think its best to divert your attention to other important matters as well. If you want to help then try helping those teenage girls na may mga sex videos din sa Manila streets na mas underrated than this issue. Those na hindi kilala and those na walang pera. For me, mas sincere na pagtulong yon than making this issue with Halili-Kho one hell of a big deal. Help other young girls out there na mas kailangan yung tulong niyo because they were abused and raped sa mga internet videos. I've seen in XXX yung mga girls na nabikta before and none of them are okay now. Maraming unresolved cases non because some of them are not as famous as Katrina Halili. Mas nafeel ko yung pity don sa mga family and mga girls na they interviewed regarding their own scandals.
I feel sad for Vagni na nacaptured ng Abu Sayyaf kasi na-overshadow na ata ng scandal na 'to. There are plenty of kids na nagugutom and plenty of family na naghahanap ng justice. Yung kay Katrina Halili fraction lang ng mga issues na 'to. Let her lawyers take of everything since may money naman sya. It's not the end of her but a new beginning. I strongly believe na she can find ways to live her life good whether mag-artista pa sya or magbusiness. She has what she needs to make drastic changes sa life niya. Maparusahan yung dapat maparusahan. Ibalita yung dapat ibalita but sana wag na isensationalized ng media. No more media frenzy please. Maraming pang pwedeng news na dapat mapakinggan. Yon ang underrated.
I just hope and wish na matapos na yung news about them. Nakakapagod na kasi makinig about it. I love watching news. It keeps me updated but it won't help pagpuro ganon. It's been years since naging aware ang mga tao about the sex scandal internet thing na yan. Now lang sila gagawa ng way to stop that? Then I hope maging successful yung mga resolutions nila for video voyeurism.
It could happen to anyone. It could happen to any of my friends or family members which I pray and hope na wag sana but if that happens I would like it to be a family thing. To face it together without any media frenzy or i-sensationalize pa para pag-usapan and magkaron ng speculations. Mas nakakaawa kasi yung involve na person. People would forget it if walang masyadong exposure. Nagiging mas grabe lang pagnagiging overrated na ang pagdiscuss about it because people will try to search, watch and talk about it.
As for everyone, I hope this kind of issue will serve as a lesson to all of us especially to the young ones. Anybody can be a victim of this kind of scandal. Whether you like it or not, with permission or without - it can put you and your family to shame. Let you brain rule over your heart sometimes and let your heart be the guide of your every decisions. Don't just use 1. Make them work as a team para hindi nalalagay sa alanganin na situation palagi.
Labels: Hayden Kho, Katrina Halili, Sex Scandal
I.Am.In.My.Dollhouse posted at 6:43 PM
